15 WRONG REASONS TO GET MARRIED!

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Bro Kunle Emmanuel
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15 WRONG REASONS TO GET MARRIED!

Post by Bro Kunle Emmanuel » Mon Apr 01, 2013 5:24 am

15 WRONG REASONS TO GET MARRIED!
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1. You must not get married because of lust.

2. Infatuation (Love at first sight- sudden love)
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3. Just liking the idea of marriage. It's just like joining the Army because you like the uniform. Nobody joins the army with a promise that he won't go to war.

4. The fear of remaining unmarried(my friends are all married, my sisters are all married e.t.c)

5. Pressure (parents, friends, etc)

6. Because you want to escape being jilted (if he is the right man/woman, he or she wont jilt you)

7. Getting married for money (money does not guarantee a successful marriage at all.

8. Using marriage as an escape route!

9. Having pity... (feeling sorry for the Man or the Woman.)

10. Foolish Expectation.... ..[Marrying an unbeliever and expecting him/her to change in the course marriage! especially if they don't change before you marry them]

11. Marrying for Beauty or Handsomeness... ....[The best time to access a woman properly is absolutely when she wakes up in the morning!] Let him see you as you are Now!!!

12. Accidental PREGNANCY! [Just because you become pregnant along the line doesn't mean you have to bury your destiny there.

13. Tribal Connection [I must marry someone from my town.,,etc...]

14. To satisfy your Parents.

15. Marrying to hurt your Parent

- Dr D.K Olukoya (MFM)
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Re: 15 WRONG REASONS TO GET MARRIED!

Post by Ellen » Thu Apr 04, 2013 6:48 am

@Naijakay these are good reasons you mention above, but i have one thing in my mind
mostly people think GOD decide her/his life partner then why people blame for wrong marriage? got it ?


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Re: 15 WRONG REASONS TO GET MARRIED!

Post by andriew25 » Thu Jun 19, 2014 11:32 am

Thanks for sharing your suggestions!!

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Re: 15 WRONG REASONS TO GET MARRIED!

Post by Bro Kunle Emmanuel » Tue Jun 24, 2014 12:27 pm

A great marriage is not when the perfect couple comes together. It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences. Yes!
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