What does the Bible say about dating / courting?

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What does the Bible say about dating / courting?

Post by Bro Kunle Emmanuel » Wed Apr 10, 2013 12:45 pm

Although the words “courtship” and “dating” are not found in the Bible, we are given some principles that Christians are to go by during the time before marriage. The first is that we must separate from the world's view on dating because God's way contradicts the world's (2 Peter 2:20). While the world’s view may be to date around as much as we want, the important thing is to discover the character of a person before making any commitment to him or her. We should find out if the person has been born again in the Spirit of Christ (John 3:3-8) and if he or she shares the same desire toward Christ-likeness (Philippians 2:5). The ultimate goal of dating or courting is finding a life partner. The Bible tells us that, as Christians, we should not marry an unbeliever (2 Corinthians 6:14-15) because this would weaken our relationship with Christ and compromise our morals and standards.

When one is in a committed relationship, whether dating or courting, it is important to remember to love the Lord above all else (Matthew 10:37). To say or believe that another person is “everything” or the most important thing in one’s life is idolatry, which is sin (Galatians 5:20; Colossians 3:5). Also, we are not to defile our bodies by having premarital sex (1 Corinthians 6:9, 13; 2 Timothy 2:22). Sexual immorality is a sin not only against God but against our own bodies (1 Corinthians 6:18). It is important to love and honor others as we love ourselves (Romans 12:9-10), and this is certainly true for a courtship or dating relationship. Whether dating or courting, following these biblical principles is the best way to have a secure foundation for a marriage. It is one of the most important decisions we will ever make, because when two people marry, they cleave to one another and become one flesh in a relationship which God intended to be permanent and unbreakable (Genesis 2:24; Matthew 19:5).
PREPARE FOR MARRIAGE and ORGANISE A WEDDING CEREMONY!

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Re: What does the Bible say about dating / courting?

Post by steve » Fri Apr 12, 2013 12:12 pm

But Naijakay, now we are in the 2013, i think we should meet before marriage because we understand
the each other and know the nature as well, what you think ??

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Re: What does the Bible say about dating / courting?

Post by Bro Kunle Emmanuel » Fri Apr 12, 2013 7:00 pm

Bible principle still stand despite being in 2013
PREPARE FOR MARRIAGE and ORGANISE A WEDDING CEREMONY!

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